3 Steps to Get Your Ex Back After A Break Up

How are you feeling after breaking up with your ex? Do you want to get your ex back? If you are really certain that you want to get your ex back it really can happen. If you are certain that you want your ex back, you can’t just go rushing in. You have to stop and think. As soon as you start thinking about rekindling your relationship, you will begin to remember the reasons you broke up in the first place.This can hurt and cause you some upset but on a positive note it will help you to realise just how important it is to get back with your ex.  So now you are probably wondering just how to get your ex back?

For most people the first thing they think of is to call their ex and to beg them to return to them. Put down that phone right now.   You can get your relationship back on track if you take the following 3 positive steps to getting your ex back.

1 – Accept – You need to begin to accept the breakup so that you can move forward.

I understand that it may be difficult to accept the breakup and all that went with that, but it is impossible to rebuild if you don’t lay the foundation and acceptance is crucial to this. Your previous relationship needs to remain a thing of the past if you have any chance of starting a fresh new relationship with your ex. If you are in a place where you can accept everything that has already happened, it just proves that you are in the right place now to move forward and get your ex back.

2 – Do not make that call if you want to get back with your ex.

Your emotions are all over the place right now. You need to take some time and allow yourself the space to relax and to be in control. Who is going to be interested in someone who is making hysterical begging phone calls? Don’t be that person, you are much better than that. Give yourself some time and allow yourself regain your emotional control.Start to think rationally about what caused your breakup as getting back with your ex will depend on understanding what went wrong in the first place and knowing how to resolve that situation before you pick up the phone. Make sure you can see the relationship and your future together as a couple in a positive light before you pick up the phone.

3 – Planning

If you have followed the above steps you should be feeling really confident about getting your relationship back on track.You need to begin planning how you will get your ex back. Now is the time to plan the when and the where. This is a time to move forward in a positive way. It is not a time to focus on blame or have any “he said, she said,” conversations going on in your head. Don’t forget that you are effectively starting a new relationship. Make sure that you don’t rush – slow and steady wins the race.

If you follow the three steps above you will have a good foundation to get your ex back. You will be in the right frame of mind and you will be in a position to rebuild the relationship, focusing on the positives.

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