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Many people, both men and women will ask themselves whether it’s worth it to work on saving their marriage after infidelity has occurred. It’s not an easy question to answer because all marriages are different. It’s not even easy to answer whether it worth it to work on saving a relationship if one of the 2 people involved has been unfaithful. All circumstances are unique, but here are some pointers that can help you to know if your marriage is worth saving or not.
1. How long has it been going on? If your partner is telling you that they have been seeing someone else for five years and maybe even have another family with this person, you might want to think twice about living your life with someone who can lie to you for such a long time. On the other hand, there are passing infidelities, those that happen very fast, and if you examine the situation objectively you realize that there were no feelings involved – it was a spur of the moment thing. It may not be worth it to throw your marriage away for something like that.
2. Look at the frequency of infidelity as well. How many times have you had to forgive your spouse for the same transgression? Some people are serial cheaters, and you don’t want to spend your life forgiving and being let down over and over again. Many people who are in this circumstance find it hard to make a decision, but remember that a serial cheater is not just wrecking your marriage; he is also putting your health, even your life at risk. You don’t know how careful he is when he is out there.
3. What was the marriage like before the infidelity? There are many happy marriages that are struck by infidelity, and if the above 2 points don’t apply, they are definitely worth saving. You had a happy marriage, you understood each other, you’re friends and you have lives built around each other. It means that you can work successfully to get things back as they were. If you were distant, couldn’t communicate and your marriage was rocky, it may be your cue to end things and move on.
4. If there was any kind of abuse, physical or emotional, let your marriage end. It’s your way out. No matter what you hold dear in that marriage, there is no excuse for you to stay in an abusive relationship.
These are tips. Generally, try to weigh the good against the bad, and take into account if your partner is ready to work with you to fix things. If they aren’t, it’s most likely time to call it quits. Move on and be happy.
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