Divorce is only a Step Away if You’re in a Sexless Marriage

Back in the beginning of your relationship, you and your spouse could hardly wait to get alone in your bedroom, could you? Is it still like that for the two of you, or has some of the magic disappeared leaving you in a sexless relationship? At this point, you and your spouse will have sex no more than once a month. Maybe you haven’t reached a point like this in your marriage, but it’s good to know that as many as 15% of all marriages end up in this predicament. Becoming trapped in a sexless marriage can give both partners feelings of inadequacy and frustration, so it’s a situation that’s best avoided, and can be if you know what you’re doing.

There is a reason why you and your partner no longer are intimate on a regular basis, so you will need to find out what it is. Couples that argue frequently will rarely be in the mood to have sex. Has there been a breakdown in communication between the two of you? Do you find yourself feeling bored with your current relationship and thinking about something more exciting, or is the stress in your life is leaving you too worn out to consider initiating sex with your partner? Whatever the problems that are causing you two to engage in sex very infrequently, you need to find them and work them out.

Which partner is it that no longer has an interest in sexual relations? Unless you’re able to be intimate with each other, then you won’t be able to have a successful marriage. Men and women are interested in sex for different reasons. Men are visual creatures, so they’ll easily get excited whenever they see something they like. Women are much more emotional creatures though, so they need to feel emotionally connected to their partner in order to want to engage in sex. A husband who wants a close, loving relationship with his wife needs to be aware of this. You certainly shouldn’t expect your woman to be in the mood to have sex soon after you have yelled at her.

You can trace all of your sexual problems back to the time when you were both madly in love and totally into each other. There are probably plenty of things that you can think of that have contributed to the present problem and make you lose sight of the bigger picture. Doc No. 34Sdlhgsdl -sds

Kristie Brown writes on a variety of topics from health to technology. Check out her websites on Save marriage alone and Save my marriage

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