Marriage and Divorce

I remember funny quotes that may tell us that the great portion of it may brings us into realization and it goes like this “In the first year of marriage, the man talks, the woman listen, in the second year of marriage the woman talks, the man listen and in the third year of marriage both of them talk the neighbor listen. This act can result, termination of marriage or Divorce.

Of course majority of people get acquainted with this act. Divorce or dissolution of marriage defined by Wikipedia Encyclopedia as the ending of a marriage before the death of either spouse and it can be contrasted with an annulment, which is a declaration that a marriage is void, though the effects of marriage may be recognized in such unions, such as spouse support or alimony,child custody, child support, and distribution of property. Divorce laws are different in every country like in the Philippines and Malta, they did not allow divorce but permitted annulment.

Where did Divorce really begin?

In early civilizations marriage and marriage dissolution were considered private matters. Marriage and divorce were first placed under comprehensive state regulation in Rome during the reign of Augustus (27 b.c.-a.d. 14). As Christianity grew, governments came under religious control by Catholic Church, the most powerful of the Christian sects, strictly forbade divorce. The only exception to this ban was if one of the parties had not been converted to Christianity before the marriage. During the 1500s the Protestant Reformation movement in Europe rejected religious control over marriage and helped move the matter of divorce from the church to the state. Divorces were granted by European courts upon a showing of fault, such as adultery, cruelty, or desertion.

It sounds controversial but it is inevitable truth happens in every couples that the strength of relationship is going week as the years pass by. It is inevitable truth that marriage takes as a higher degree in man’s life. It is a higher degree because once you are engage in marriage, ought to deprive several things just to enter crucial relationship. Comparing when you are just a bachelor, you can still live by eating bread alone, which means that it is easy for a bachelor to provide and find things necessary for his needs, he can still hang-outs with friends with minimal worries that may bother your mind or uncertainty, he have still more or less freedom that there is less worries in many aspects, and other things that bachelor take beneficial compare to married one.

Almost majority of couples say that the sweetest part of marriage is in the beginning because passionate love and warmth romance sheds in that stage to the fullest. In the first time of rendezvous, the both parties have a lot of plans like constructing decision if how many babies they will have, how elegant house they will build, planning to have a car/s, how can they established greater things more what they are expecting for maintaining good relationship, and planning to separate from parents to enjoy liberty.

In the contrary, there are couples have been tried for many years by keeping good relationship, patience, temperance, meekness, benevolence and long suffering although it is inevitable to get misunderstood and distraught one another for assimilating adventurously in several years but the verdict always depends among couples on how to mitigate things which leads and tends to destruct good relationships.

Some says that putting marriage into end or divorce will not serve as a climax of love affairs because they can still find a partners that can meet to their wants or can ease the urge of flesh like sexual intercourse. Sex is the happiest thing that man can achieve and covers impotence of each parties. By keeping good sexual relationship will bring couple’s relation to be strengthen and consistent.

As I have said that marriage serves as a higher degree for mankind because there are a lot of factors that can immediately change your schemes. We cannot ignore the fact that there are many couples hastily get married because of many factors – like excessive love or lust of flesh, curiosity of sex, entice by either man or woman, ignorance or illiteracy, lack of council by parents or neighbors and sexual experience. As we reckon all this things, we can now see the actual panorama of voiding marriage and we can now formulate questions that what factors why marriage put into end or get void by legacy by citing data on Divorce Statistics in various countries.

Divorce Statistics and statistics research services.

Author: Elvin Deza
Article Source: EzineArticles.com
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