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Avoid Infidelity – You Can Save Your Marriage From Cheating!

Avoid infidelity – a common reason for divorce is infidelity. There ARE things that you can do in your marriage to make sure it doesn’t happen to you.

If you work outside of the home, keep your coworkers from becoming close friends. Getting too personal with your coworkers allows the possibility of infidelity, even though it may be unintentional.

Very personal issues should only be talked about with your own family. By your opening up to someone outside of your family, you won’t be able to avoid infidelity as well.

Infidelity in Marriage

Infidelity is the act of cheating on your spouse or partner when you are in a relationship or marriage. It is one of the biggest causes and concerns for couples these days facing conflicted and troubled marriages. The act of infidelity is usually caused by the will to attain a much needed affection or attention of another person, that you are not getting from your spouse at home.

How To Fix Marriage Problems – How You Talk Really Matters

What does the way you speak to your spouse have to do with your lingering marriage problems? If you are to a point of absolute misery in your marriage but want to work things out so you can stay together, the first thing you need to do is analyze how you are communicating with one another when it comes to discussing your relationship.

The biggest differential between couples that are able to salvage a difficult marriage and those that end up in divorce often comes down to communication. While every couple believes they are communicating in an open and honest manner, they are in fact coming at one another in a very defensive, accusatory manner which puts the other up in arms instead of at ease.

Dealing With Infidelity – To Pardon Or Not to Pardon is the Question

Dealing with infidelity is a major area of concern in any marriage, even when promiscuity, in several developed cultures is as commonplace as brushing your teeth. Some protagonists of extra-marital affairs say that infidelity is a great ego, confidence and performance booster, and it is perfectly acceptable, so long as you do not get caught!

Even when you know what to expect, infidelity, every time it happens, creates ripples around the people concerned, bringing shame and infamy to the families concerned. Of the people who are directly involved with infidelity, it is difficult to say who suffers most – as they are all dealing with infidelity in their own way, trying to bring sanity into their own little worlds.

Cheating Spouse – Does Emotional Infidelity Count As Cheating?

When anyone talks about cheating and infidelity, what comes to mind is usually about your partner behaving intimately with another individual of the opposite sex, such as kissing, cuddling and having sex. What about emotional infidelity? With the convenience of online chat and online dating sites, it is not difficult for anyone to get emotional involved on cyberspace, so does that count as infidelity too? Definitely! You are talking about a cheating spouse regardless of whether sex is involved because being in a relationship with someone means you share a special bond with him/her and it is not just physical involvement.

13 Reasons Why You Should Look for Signs of Infidelity

When it comes to infidelity and extramarital affairs, ignorance is not bliss. If you suspect your spouse of cheating on you, it’s to your advantage to search for signs of infidelity so you can confirm or disprove what you suspect.

Here are 13 compelling reasons why:

1. To put your mind at ease. Suspecting your spouse of infidelity can cause you endless days of worry and many sleepless nights. If it turns out that your spouse isn’t cheating, it will be a big relief to know your suspicions were untrue. The sooner you confront your suspicions, the sooner you can stop worrying and get on with your life.

Your Spouse’s Infidelity Revealed – Of Course You Are Angry and Scared – Part 1

Infidelity can be a component of sexual addiction or relational event(s). It is generally enshrouded in secrecy and dishonesty, with great amounts of time and effort spent to keep it hidden. Spouses find out about the infidelity or sexual addiction in a wide variety of ways. Several are listed below:

  • Receiving anonymous phone calls from the unfaithful spouse’s spurned lover or other parties;
  • The suspicious spouse finding credit card receipts, phone bills, or other tell-tale signs in the paper trail. 
  • The spouse intercepting phone messages or calls meant for the unfaithful spouse;
  • The couple being faced with the negative consequences (i.e., legal, financial, career) of infidelity or sexual addiction
  • The infidelity or sexual addiction being revealed in counseling or in substance abuse treatment. 
  • Catching him/her “in the act”.

These are but a few of the ways that a faithful spouse receives the news that their beloved has been unfaithful. Regardless of how the infidelity is revealed, the disclosure or revelation of the infidelity creates or intensifies a crisis within the marital relationship.  Spouses often have a sense or an intuition that “something is wrong” before the infidelity is revealed. They may engage in “fact-finding missions” to affirm or deny their own suspicions. Although they are engaged in evidence gathering behavior, they are probably at mixed purposes, with wanting on one hand, to satisfy their need to know the truth, and on the other hand, to be reassured that they are wrong. Usually before the disclosure occurs, there have been accusations and arguments about the faithful spouse’s suspicions.  Most suspicious spouses will ask questions, make accusations, and confront the unfaithful spouse with pieces of evidence, then believe the unbelievable explanations and denial.  

Sick of Marriage – Divorce Or Continue?

Did you ever have a time that you tell yourself you want to break free from this marriage and be single again? A person can be sick of a marriage after together for a long time. This is especially true when couples are having the same routine every day. The most common reason when a person sick of marriage is “Bored”. When a person gets really bored in a relationship, they start to show out their bad attitude to the marriage.

Saving Your Marriage – Divorce Avoidance With Common Sense

Interestingly enough, there are some common characteristics to the best tips for saving your marriage. Divorce experts will most likely agree that the best methods are the ones that make the most sense. For example, if you are having financial problems, it does not make much sense to seek therapy for intimacy issues. In most cases, if you sit down with your spouse and address the money problems, your other issues will also fall into place.

Saving Your Marriage: Divorce Avoidance For Newlyweds