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According to the latest statistics, over 50% of all marriages are ending in divorce nowadays. Most couples just don’t have the mentality to stick with each other no matter what. On the other side though are couples that have chosen to stick with each other despite the fact that they’re miserable. That is not exactly a good life to live in and may even be better to just call it quits if there is no hope of saving the marriage. If your marriage is over, then you may notice some of the following signs.
Marriage will be much, much harder if you and your spouse can’t communicate with each other that well. Couples that no longer communicate with each other much are really on the brink of divorce. When you need your partner because something has happened in your life, you should always be able to count on them being there. The only person you may have to communicate with may be your friends or other family members.
Lack of communication may not exactly be a problem in your relationship. Fighting will break out much more often the more that you and your partner head towards divorce. You may not reserve fighting for serious things, as some of the most trivial things may cause you to start fighting. It’s not a good sign if you or your partner continuously remind the other of hurtful things that happened some time ago.
Your relationship will definitely suffer if there isn’t much trust in it. You should always feel comfortable trusting your partner. If trust isn’t something that your relationship is fortunate enough to have, then you would need to work on changing that as soon as you could.
You should know that every couple needs to spend quality time together. Whenever you stop spending that much time together, your marriage may be headed for divorce. Both of you may start doing your own separate things instead of finding things to do together. The more time you spend apart, the further you drift away from each other as you go about living your separate lives.
You certainly don’t want lack of sex to become a problem in your relationship. This should be pretty obvious. Divorce may be right around the corner if you don’t have sex that often.
The current condition of your marriage will have been caused by many things. If you really want to save your marriage and stay with your partner, then you will need to take the time to address these issues properly.
Kristie Brown writes on a variety of topics from health to technology. Check out her websites on marriage and marriage-success-secrets.com.