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If you are in a relationship presently, or are thinking of going into one, there are 3 very important tips you should know and questions you should ask yourself before you ever get yourself into a relationship. This could preserve you from a lot of heartache and pain when you are involved in a love relationship.
(1) Your lover does not give you your happiness, peace or pleasure.
Happiness is a state of mind we decide to have. All of your enjoyment, and all your suffering, are created by you and they do not come from outside of you, or from others. Before you go into any kind of relationship, think about these questions: “Do I really, really, really can walk away from disappointment and fear? Will I manage to find the person i am now even after I go into this relationship and initiate a new lifestyle?”
Simply speaking, you should not be dependent on your lover or your emotional necessities. You are responsible for your own feelings and creating optimistic experiences for both your partner and you whenever you will be together.
(2) Adore your mate for who they are.
No one in this world is faultless. One day you will discover your mate doing some things or saying some things that will hurt you, disappoint you or anger you. Before you go into any kind of liaison, you have to ask yourself: “Will I manage to love my companion for who they are.
If I am depressed or angry with something they have said or done, will I manage to recognize my unhappiness or anger as against their speech, actions and behavior, rather than against their persons?”
(3) Will I be able to love myself as much as I love my partner?
In case you cannot love yourself, how are you going to offer love to another? It is a mistake most people make whenever they go into a relationship. They become over-obsessive with what they can give to their companions and what they can do for their partners. To ensure a fulfilling relationship, you have to learn how to handle your own needs as well.
A true partner or lover is one who will make sure that you do not become too influenced by them. You are responsible for your own feelings as well as your own emotional needs too. You are a fabulous being. So, take care of yourself, love yourself, treat yourself to all of the benefits in life too, and do the same to your partner. Very quickly you will find real love always heading towards you with no effort on your part!
Of course, in case you are encountering problems with your relationship, try to dissolve all of your problems in love.
And you’ll be certain you are on your way to a beautiful and fulfilling relationship!